When love happens .....

Love in most movies is when a boy meets a girl they fight they argue they understand and then they fall in love. I always thought is love that simple. Do people all of a sudden understand that they are in love or is it a one 'logical' step after another? Can love happen anywhere? Can love happen with anyone? When do you know it's love? When do you it's just a crush or it's serious love?. All of these questions always went through my mind whenever i saw all those mindless movies. From the time i was in fourth when i had a crush on one of the girls in school till the time i proposed my now fiancee, i have had numerous instances when i thought i have met my dream girl. When i proposed to a girl in my engg college and she rejected me i was heart broken. I could not think, i could not handle the rejection and all of this filled in a animosity for the girl. I was a kid back then and i never really took it in a matured way. Throughout the engg years i wooed other girls just to make that female feel jealous, silly isn't it?. I thought she was the dream girl i always wanted but i was wrong. Then came a time when i met this girl after my engg whom i knew through a common friend when i was in my first yr engg. We met we talked and something told me that she was the girl. We both went to the same library to study she was studying for her MBA entrance exams and i was studying to look for a job. I checked the library register daily to see if she is there too, i used to look out in all library rooms just to get a glimpse of her. God!!! i was crazy about her then. I think she knew that i had feelings for her and i could judge that by her responses. I think i blew it up by trying to show in my ego. Yes!!! i have made my fair share of mistakes with girls.
You cannot fall in love unless you take your ego out of the equation. Women want their man to be kind, treat them with respect, not be sarcastic, hold her hand, be genuine and not just tell her but also feel that he loves her. I understood all this when i met my now fiancee. The day i proposed to her i probably still didn't exactly know what love meant. After dating for 3yrs and going through my fair share of ups and downs i know what love means. I think once you have found the right girl love happens everyday. When you see her happy, love happens. When she says she loves you, love happens. When you hold her hand and look into her eyes, love happens. When she holds you tight saying that she trusts you and always needs you, love happens. My brother once told me this that a true love is the one where you fall in love with the same person everyday. I fell in love with my fiancee when i proposed to her, when i held her hand for the first time, when i saw her after coming back from abroad for the first time, when we got engaged, when i left her to come to US and now when i daily see her on chat. Love just doesn't happen when you propose to the girl you have a liking for, love happens when you realise that the girl is the centre of your universe.

True love just doesn't happen, it keeps on happening.